These two words are the most important sentence starters of all time. They have the power to make you the person you want to be each and every day. If you wake up and say, "I am happy. I am ready to conquer my day. I am an important person in the lives of those around me!" then I guarantee you will begin to see this come true. With that being said, you will also see truth in your words when you say the opposite, "I am exhausted. I am not worthy. I am not capable."
In terms of relationships...the key to finding your soulmate is within these two words! Wake up every morning and use the first moments alone with the reflection in front of you and create yourself! "I am beautiful. I am powerful. I am confident. I am funny. I am desirable. I am the one he/she wants to be with for the rest of their lives."
And then...just be.